The Paradigm Confessional Thread

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Originally posted by COHugh spoiler (highlight to read): As Ive mentioned before, I work in a pharmacy. A really crappy pharmacy with a lot of old senile customers and store managers who NEVER support the employees and operate under the "the customer is always right, even when they kick you in the nuts and spit on you. YOU'RE ALWAYS WRONG!!" mentality of the 1960's. One annoying bi-- customer in particular bangs on the windows, the counters, the register, and screams at the top of her lungs EVERY SINGLE TIME she comes to the pharmacy. I take it personally because, surprise surprise, I'm a sensitive person. Today, I snapped. I ran out there after her pathetic little hissy, pointed at her, and yelled: "You have no right to bang on the glass, scream 'HELLO', pound on the counter, or anything else that you just did. You will not pound on the window again. You WILL NOT pound on this counter again. YOU WILL NOT yell when you get to this counter. YOU WILL wait patiently like a good customer!" I then turned around and walked back into the pharmacy. She proceeded to b**** about how I treated her like an animal. WHAT THE HELL??? She pounds on the glass, yells at us with NO RESPECT whatsoever, and ****I**** was the one treating ****HER**** like an animal????? WTF??????? GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!! ::is angry::

I tell you, some people can be so selfish and inconsiderate these days. It's quite a shame really. They complain about us being rude, yet they don't set the example. Stupid hypocrites.

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Originally posted by COHugh spoiler (highlight to read): Alright, I've calmed down considerably so I'll do a non-jerkish confession: I hate walking around on campus. So many happy couples... So depressing.

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I know! It really makes me wonder "why not me? what the hell am I doing wrong?"

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Originally posted by GAT-X105 quote: Originally posted by COHugh spoiler (highlight to read): Alright, I've calmed down considerably so I'll do a non-jerkish confession: I hate walking around on campus. So many happy couples... So depressing. spoiler (highlight to read): I know! It really makes me wonder "why not me? what the hell am I doing wrong?"

That's everything I've been moaning about for the past...year?

sorry bout that

enh...sorry I blew up

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Sorry It's a little fuzzy, might not be good enough for YOU

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Originally posted by DOA SOBF spoiler (highlight to read): alright u guys now just listen to me hear and dont get all mad. Chances are....im not saying its true, that if ur a teenager and have being trying to find someone and havent had any luck, then chances are that u need some help in the looks department. try and figure out what is wrong and make an attempt to fix it, or change something and make urself look new in one way or another, If that doesnt work, then u r approaching the problem the wrong way, and need to find a better way of approaching or starting a conversation

Be prepared to get yelled at, my friend. What you said is very superficial and 100% false as well. It's opinons like the one that you've just expressed that plauge our society. So do yourself and keep your snobbish opinons to yourself; they can get you into all sorts of trouble (see "Almasy").

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Dude, Spoony is cute.

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Hell, I know exactly what my problem is. I have less-than-zero confidence. Which I am working to fix.

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My problem is that I really look for someone who I can be with on more than one level. To me a relationship is nothing if there isn't a strong emotional aspect about it. If I wanted I could have a boyfriend, but it would be a "wanna f***" kind of one. I want someone who I can really talk to , and who respects me for who I am, and let's me have my opinions too, rather than treating me like arm candy. I hate guys who have "arm candy"

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I'm also over critical.

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Originally posted by GAT-X105 spoiler (highlight to read): I'm weird in that I would never treat a girl as "arm candy." unlike most guys I know, I don't want ass, I actually WANT a girlfriend.

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I never treat girls like arm candy. I've only been in 2 (count 'em) serious relationships, and it never involved showing "my woman" (as most shovanist males would put it) off like a trophy. Also, I never asked for ass (as GAT-X105), but just went with what they said and did. I'm a loser, so I don't look like the kind of person who would have a girlfriend and have sex...But I was/am/whatever...

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Okay, one: DOA; be careful of what you say and prejudge of others, especially on the internet; people are not what they seem to be, and forming a preconceived notion of anyone without knowing or looking at them is an invitation to trouble. I feel that you probably did not intend to hurt, but I'm saying this for your benefit; be wary of what you say to and about others

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Two: Spoony, I perfectly understand how you feel, but....uh, comments like that, even if they are in spoilers, should best be taken up privately. After all - who doesn't read spoilers, particularly if they are in a non-show setting. I might have to edit some of what you say, less there is a "spoiler technicality", or something. That's a cute picture, by the way .

And for everyone: PLEASE remember the purpose of this thread; side comments that are not related to a confession are okay, but should be stated outside of the spoiler tags, and anything that doesn't really fit the category of a confession should be kept out, period. Okay?

Well, I said that the last thing was my last "confession", since I really have nothing to hide so long as you ask me in earnest and sincerity, but since I'm already here, I guess I shouldn't leave without saying something:

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I've said that I'm generally pleasent and non-tempermental, and that's very true , but regarding a question about my sig, it should be known that, if I'm provoked or pushed past the limits of my patience, I can be a cruel and malicious person - and, well, enjoy it. I took great delight one time in putting this super-jerk who liked picking on the weak and was stupid enough to attempt to physically assult me(my limt) in his place - without laying a hand on him - and if it were allowed, I would have gladly walked him through the motions that would have landed him in the hospital. *shrugs* or the grave. Whichever. Okay, maybe that's a bit harsh , but people like that are the only ones that are my serious pet peeves. Them, and two-faced betrayers.

Sorry, I'll edit it myself, I was just really pissed off, people make notions like that all the time and it's really irritating.

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I LOVE country music

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I can't stand timid, inhibited, introverted and generally weak people—namely those who lack any form of confidence, who are so excruciatingly self-conscious, shy and awkward, who are afraid to speak their mind, who waste all their time bending over backwards to better suit others, who can't do anything but moan and complain about how miserable they are and how depressing their lives are, and who let everyone trample over them because their such pushovers. People like that are just totally pathetic. When I see those kinds of people walking around school, I just want to go up to them and say something like, "For God's sake—why are you wasting your life away? Get over your awkwardness, stop being so withdrawn, and start living life! You only live once!" These people are just a waste of time. Needless to say, I completely avoid them. After all, who in their right mind would want to waste their own lives hanging around such boring people? ...no thanks!

EDIT: There seems to be some confusion (not sure why, since I mentioned it in my post, but...) Please not that the above confession has nothing to do with anyone from PCF. It is simply regarding people that I see in my day-to-day life at my school.

alright everybody...i complete was ready for this and i said that as my guess...im just saying that that is a possibility so nobody has to get all up on me about something i just threw out there not trying to insult anyone or anything. It was just a thought that if ur all as cool as u seem then u guys should have no problem, it will take some looking but theres tons of ppl out there. Im just saying that if u think that there is something wrong with ur appearance then u should fix it if u think it will raise ur confidence so all u ppl who think i did something wrong keep it to urself becasue it never said anyone was im just saying if ppl are really looking as hard and as long as they say then something isnt right, and appearance is one possibility so all u ppl need think about where i might be coming from before u go calling me superficial and basically and
asshole

oh an whoever that girl was pretty hot sorry but im not confident in my editing capablilities so admins bare wit me

(Edit - It's not a problem. And, uh, please don't double post - 'strider)

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Originally posted by Almasy spoiler (highlight to read): I can't stand timid, inhibited, introverted and generally weak people—namely those who lack any form of confidence, who are so excruciatingly self-conscious, shy and awkward, who are afraid to speak their mind, who waste all their time bending over backwards to better suit others, who can't do anything but moan and complain about how miserable they are and how depressing their lives are, and who let everyone trample over them because their such pushovers. People like that are just totally pathetic. When I see those kinds of people walking around school, I just want to go up to them and say something like, "For God's sake—why are you wasting your life away? Get over your awkwardness, stop being so withdrawn, and start living life! You only live once!" These people are just a waste of time. Needless to say, I completely avoid them. After all, who in their right mind would want to waste their own lives hanging around such boring people? ...no thanks!

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Congratulations, you hate me. And also Jeff. And probably a lot of people on here.

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Originally posted by DOA SOBF alright everybody...i complete was ready for this and i said that as my guess...im just saying that that is a possibility so nobody has to get all up on me about something i just threw out there not trying to insult anyone or anything. It was just a thought that if ur all as cool as u seem then u guys should have no problem, it will take some looking but theres tons of ppl out there. Im just saying that if u think that there is something wrong with ur appearance then u should fix it if u think it will raise ur confidence so all u ppl who think i did something wrong keep it to urself becasue it never said anyone was im just saying if ppl are really looking as hard and as long as they say then something isnt right, and appearance is one possibility so all u ppl need think about where i might be coming from before u go calling me superficial and basically and asshole oh an whoever that girl was pretty hot sorry but im not confident in my editing capablilities so admins bare wit me

Right, any more excuses? You know what they call that paragraph above? a cop out. You said what you said and whatever, no big deal, you just obviously didn't think before you spoke.

and almasy, I think that it would suit the general public better if you didn't make snide comments such as the one above.

as for my confession

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i have an image problem, i do think im not hot, but since other people do i carry myself well. damn that self conciousness

whatevr u obviously cannot comprehend that it was juts a thought at that and i wasnt trying to be an asshole but if ur gonna bitch about it that fine.....WARN ME...BLOCK ME...whatevr but ur way over reacting

whatevr u obviously cannot comprehend that it was juts a thought at that and i wasnt trying to be an asshole but if ur gonna bitch about it that fine.....WARN ME...BLOCK ME...whatevr but ur way over reacting

dude overreacting? I jsut said it was a cop out, excuse me for flipping my sh**. See the thing I'm starting to really not like about you is how you keep making these assumptions, like that I"m ugly and need to change my appearance to get a bf, and how i cannot possibly comprehend, that you were just "trying to help", whatever. We need to quit spamming, pm me or something if you really feel like this needs to go any further.

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I don't care about my schoolwork anymore